Some submissive-minded boys are lucky enough to have a dominant dad or stepdad at home who knows that the best way to address less-than-masculine behavior is with humiliating punishments. A good over-the-knee spanking can be an effective way of turning boys into men, but it can also turn sissy boys into wimps for life. The ones in the latter category grow up with no interest in fucking or getting blown, they just keep looking for dominant men to discipline them, control them, and give them orders. They will never become men and don’t want to.
A good father knows how to separate the wheat from the chaff.